2020 Holiday Gift Guide-Game Time!

Winter always means more indoor times and with concerns about another wave of Covid-19 cases as we enter the holiday season, I anticipate people will be spending a lot more time indoors as a family. There are only so many television shows one can binge and I get the sense that people are looking for ways to connect that don’t involve a screen given amount of time people are spending with remote learning and work. Now seems like an ideal time to re-evaluate your game closet and make sure you have some games that will keep the whole family entertained. Below, I share a handful of this year’s favorites. I am excited to have some amazing game suggestions from my colleague, speech therapist Jacki Barredo, that are geared towards older kids and have a speech and language twist to them. I have also tried to add a handful of board games that encourage movement as I think it's so important that no matter what happens with the pandemic, we keep kids active because it is proven that children learn better and are more emotionally balanced when their bodies are given the opportunity to get up and move. 

Wriggleworms-I am a complete sucker for any game that has some kind of grabber to pick up pieces so when I saw this game I was sold. For the little ones on your gift list this year, this is a simple game packed with fun ways to work on developing a variety of skills. The game comes with 20 stretchy worms in 4 colors and 2 different lengths and 20 cards (10 with numbers, 8 critical thinking and 2 size outlines). Kids spin a spinner and they either collect a worm of the same color or the number of worms that they land on. The goal of the game is to be the player to collect the larger number of worms. My favorite part is that they have to use the provided tongs to remove the worms from the game board which is a wonderful way to work on increasing grasp strength and improve manipulation skills. In addition to working on fine motor skills, children learn about colors and size, can practice working on sorting skills, counting and be introduced to early math skills. 

Share And Sparkle Game-The Rainbow Fish is a popular children’s book that teaches children about the importance of being kind, sharing and what it means to be a good friend. In this cooperative, educational game, children must work together to collect all of the Rainbow Fish’s sparkly scales so he can swim in the waves before they reach the shore. Cooperative games are a great way for children or families to learn that there is more to playing a game than winning or losing. In addition to working on improving play skills, children can work on developing fine motor and grasping skills, hand-eye coordination and visual perceptual skills. 

The Color Monster Game-based on one of my favorite children’s books about learning how to identify and understand feelings, The Color Monster game seems to be a much needed resources for young children during these crazy times. Children (and their grownups!) are feeling lot of big feelings and sometimes that can be very confusing. In this collaborative game, children work take turns rolling the dice to move the monster around the board to try and fill up the jars by matching the emotion tokens to the correct colored jar. In order to pick up an emotion coin, children have to share a memory or experience they had with whichever feeling they pick up (Happiness, Sadness, Anger, Fear or Calm). The game is finished when all the correct emotion tokens are in the correct jar. 

Don't Break The Ice-a classic children's game perfect for preschoolers, Don't Break the Ice is a two to four player game where the object is to keep Phillip the Penguin on top of the ice as long as you can while you tap out pieces of ice. Using a little mallet, kids tap out ice pieces but it requires thought and patience to choose a piece that won't make the whole board break. This game is perfect for the little ones in your life who are just starting to learn about turn taking. It also works on developing hand-eye coordination, bilateral coordination and can improve grasping and manipulation skills. 

Pancake Pileup-this game is a huge hit both at my sensory gym and with my kids at The Meeting House. What I love about Pancake Pileup is that you can play it in so many ways depending on your child's goals. This game has been a good one to play on my remote sessions to add a gross motor component. It is traditionally a relay-style game where kids pick a card and then try and be the first to stack their pancakes in the correct order; pancakes are on one end of the room and the plate is on the other. If you have several kids you can do a relay race where one kid picks up the first pancake, hands off the spatula to the next kid and continue until the card is complete. Pancake Pileup is great for working on improving visual perceptual skills, hand-eye coordination, sequencing and executive functioning skills such as focus, attention, organization and regulation skills. Additionally, you can improve gross motor skills by giving the kids physical challenges such as jumping, walking backwards, etc. 

First Orchard-one of the things I am hearing from many of my families is their concerns about their very young children missing out on critical opportunities to socialize and learn early academic skills. I am here to reassure parents of young children that there are so many other ways to support your children during this crazy time and the most important way is through play. If your toddler isn't going to school, collaborative games like First Orchard are great for teaching them about working together, color recognition and early counting skills. Together, children (and their grownups if necessary) work together to pick the fruits from the trees before the raven reaches the end of the path. First Orchard is similar to Hi Ho Cherry O but I am always a big fan of toys/products made from wood for sustainability. In addition to working on the aforementioned skills, First Orchard encourages fine motor and manipulations skill and hand-eye coordination.

Little Red Riding Hood Game-this is a great game to work on problem solving and logical reasoning with preschoolers and young school-age children. The point of the game is to get Little Red Riding Hood to grandma’s house by creating the correct path. There are 48-challenge cards and each one starts with a guide to how to place the pieces (Little Red Riding Hood, grandma’s house, trees and the wolf) on the board and fill in the path using the correct pieces. While they say this is a 1-player game, I think it would be a great game for kids to work on together in order to solve the challenge. In addition to cognitive skills, this game works on improving fine motor, grasping and manipulation skills, improves visual-spatial and perceptual skills and increases executive functioning skills such as focus, attention and organizational skills.

Mr. Mouth-I love when games from my childhood make a comeback and even more happy when said games end up being favorites for the kids that I work with. Mr. Mouth is great for older preschoolers and school-age kids to work on improving hand-eye coordination, visual motor and visual perceptual skills and a great game for working on executive functioning skills such as focus, attention, regulation and organizational skills. Be the first to get all of your bugs into the mouth. Sounds easy but you have to time it just right which can be tricky. For my younger kids who might be getting frustrated, I often let them practice by keeping the mouth open for the first round so they can get used to the game in order to build up their frustration tolerance. 

Kerplunk Sloths-the original Kerplunk (marbles) and Tumblin' Monkeys are two of my favorite games and also longtime favorites at work. When I went searching for the link to those games, I stumbled upon this newer version and obsessed is an understatement. Instead of marbles or monkeys, you have to collect the cutest little plastic sloths you've ever seen! Kids take turns rolling the die and removing the matching color stick. The rules actually say that the person with the least number of sloths at the end is the winner but I often let the child(ren) playing decide if they want to aim to get the most or the least number in order to determine a winner. Kerplunk Sloths works on so many developmental skills including improving fine motor and manipulation skills, improving visual motor and visual perceptual skills, encourages executive functioning skills such as focus, attention, planning and organizational skills. Younger children may need some assistance for set-up but in general, this game is appropriate for pre-school through school-age children. 

Spottington-for those of you who don't know about Eeboo, I highly recommend you get to know them. In addition to beautiful puzzles, pretend play toys and craft supplies, they have some of the most well-made, durable and creative games. I received Spottington in my monthly Sensory TheraPlay box last month and it's been a great game for my school age kids. One of my favorite things about this visual perceptual and visual scanning game is the fact that it comes with 7 double-sided interchangeable game boards so the game is never the same. The rules of the game are quite simple, which is another bonus, which makes it more fun for everyone. People take turns flipping over one of the 250 picture cards and everyone playing races to be the first one to find it. Once you find it, you place your token on it and call out "Spottington". The objects are various sizes and there be others that look similar so it really takes a lot of concentration. This game is great for working on visual motor, visual scanning and visual discrimination skills and improves executive functioning skills such as focus and attention. 

The Floor is Lava-with the recent success of the Netflix show, The Floor is Lava, this has become a game kids have gotten really into. I love this game, especially as we are looking at the possibility of a second round of lockdowns and shelter in place action, because it offers movement opportunities for our kids who are spending so much time on a screen. In this family game players must imagine that the floor is molten hot lava while spinning the color wheel to jump to the right foam pieces. The game comes with 25 different colored "safety stones" and 27 challenge cards. This gross motor game works on jumping, leaping, balance, coordination and motor planning. For younger kids, this could be a really fun way to learn about colors. 

Turtle Steps-another gross motor game that can be played indoors or outdoors. Kids who have gross motor delays often want to avoid movement at all costs possible so being able to do it through game can be a game changer for them. Turtle Steps works on balance, coordination and concentration and is appropriate for children 3 years and older. The game includes 3 large and 3 medium-sized turtle shell stepping stones, 24 activity cards with turtle facts and alternative ways to play the game. Through obstacle courses and challenges, kids can work on jumping, coordination and increasing body strength. Play by the rules it comes with or create your own game using the turtle shells. For those of you worried about space, the shells easily stack as to not take up too much space. Gross motor development and movement is important for building confidence, self-esteem and helps with children learning. During these crazy times where so many kids are doing remote school, it's so important that we provide as many opportunities for movement that we can. 

Boochie-another movement game that the whole family can enjoy indoors or outdoors. The first part of the game is to toss out the Boochie target and then try to land your ball and as close as possible. Kids will love that they get to keep score on the special wrist tracker that the game comes with that will throw out different throwing challenges each round. Kids may have to toss between their legs, behind their back, with their eyes closed and so much more. In addition to getting kids up and moving while they may be stuck inside this winter, it works on improving a variety of gross motor skills such as hand-eye coordination, balance, endurance, throwing skills and so much more. 

Sushi Go-one of my clients recommended this game to me and I am obsessed with it now. I actually just picked up my second game to play at home with my husband and daughter! This pick and pass card game is fast-paced and requires strategy and good planning. Each player gets 10 cards and is trying to score the most points by collecting and making a variety of sushi rolls. Sounds easy, but it gets tricky because you keep passing your cards between players who might end up taking the card that you need. This is great for older children who are working on executive functioning skills such as focus, attention and organization. It's also a great way to sneak in some additional math practice for your kids! 

Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza-this game recommendation comes from speech therapist extraordinaire, Jacki Barredo. I’m a huge fan of card games because they are easy to store and can easily be taken on the go to keep your kids entertained and this definitely fits that requirement. Pass out all of the cards to all the players and take turns flipping your cards over while saying taco, cat, goat, cheese, pizza (in that order). When the card and the word match, players race to slap the cards and the winner takes the pile. Be sure to keep your eyes open for three special action cards. This is definitely for older children on your gift list and great for working on sequencing, organization, focus, attention and really great for working on regulatory skills. 

Hearing Things-another recommendation from my speech therapist colleague, Jacki Barredo, geared towards older children (10 and older). After the online viral "whisper challenge" sensation, Hasbro created this game. One player puts on a pair of speech-cancelling electronic headphones and the other player is required to say the random phrases on the card. The player only earns the card if they correctly figure out what the other one was saying.

Buildzi-one of my absolute favorite games, and has been for years, is the dice game Tenzi. It’s been a favorite for my kids and has been on my gift guide for years. As I have spent the last few months trying to freshen up my game selection, I stumbled on Buildzi and had to test it out immediately. It has quickly become a favorite of my kids, particularly my older children. One of the things that I love about this companies games is that they all have more than one way to play it making it less likely your child will become bored with it. When playing Tower Buildzi, kids have to look at a card and replicate the tower on the card; this can be done individually or against a friend to see who can build it the fastest without it falling down. When playing Block Card Buildzi, each player gets 8 cards with different shapes and they have to build a sturdy tower using the random shapes.
Buildzi is amazing for working on developing a variety of visual skills such as visual motor, visual perceptual, visual discrimination and visual tracking skills. It also works on improving executive functioning skills such as focus, attention, organization and improving frustration tolerance. If you have a child who has difficulty with teamwork, this is a great game, particularly the Block Card version, to work together with a sibling or a peer to strategize the best way to build a tower. 

Rummy Tile Board Game-Rummikub is a favorite game amongst many of my family and friends. Whenever my sister comes to visit (remember when one could freely travel???), we spend hours playing it. While I have the original version, I thought this version would be more appealing to kids. Rummy Tile Board is a great game for older children who need to work on developing or improving their executive functioning skills. Kids have to take turns placing numbered tiles in runs (4, 5, 6 and so on) or in groups (same numbers, different colors). The first person to use all of their tiles wins. This fast-paced game works on sequencing, pattern recognition, focus, attention and organizational skills. Like many of the more complicated games I introduce my kids to, I always play the first few rounds together so I can make sure they truly understand the rules and answer any questions they might have. I find that this builds their confidence and motivates them to try something that may be tricky for them. 

Morphy-another one of my favorite games for the older kids on my caseload. The goal of the game is to collect the most number of discs by finding a disc with that is different by one quality. The game comes with 60 discs that have a color, pattern and a center circle hole that varies in size. Start with a green disc with stripes and a large center circle and you can move it to an orange disc with stripes and a large center circle or to a green disc with dots and a large center circle. Morphy is a fast-paced game that works on improving visual motor and visual perceptual skills, visual discrimination, visual tracking, pattern recognition, sequencing and improves executive functioning skills such as focus, attention, organization and self-monitoring. 

I had so much fun putting this game gift guide together. As I have already said, parents are looking for as many opportunities to get their kids off of a screen and what's better than getting the family together to play games. I worked really hard to find games that grown-ups would enjoy playing and not just feel obligated to. There are so many great games out there but it can be really hard to sift through them all. One of the things that I was mindful about with this list is that a variety of skills could be worked on when playing them. 

I highly recommend going to your local toy-stores and see what they have; they are often a wealth of information and know what is most popular. Some of my favorite local toy-stores that have an amazing selection here in the New York City area are Lulu's Cuts and Toys in Park Slope, Little Things Toy Store in Park Slope, Stationery and Toy Store on the Upper West Side, Mary Arnold Toys on the Upper East Side and Fun Stuff Toys on Long Island. While it's always been important to shop local and small businesses, they are really relying on it this holiday season. 

There are so many more games out there and if you are looking for something specific for your child or someone you are looking to buy for this year, I'd be happy to help you find the perfect game. I am only a click away and love hearing from you all. Also, if you have any game suggestions, please send them my way! I am always looking for new games for work and home. 

2018 Holiday Gift Guide-Gross Motor Toys

When people think of occupational therapy, they probably think of fine motor and sensory processing skills. While that is often the main focus of the work we do, there is also a lot of opportunities to work on gross motor skills as well. Below, I share ten of my favorite gross motor toys, games and activity sets that make developing body strength, improving motor planning and organizational skills and improving balance and coordination fun.

Calm Mind Kit-this is one of my favorite new items to my whole gift guide this year. I have been a huge fan of Rose & Rex for years so when I heard they were developing their very own product that would work on mindfulness and mediation, I was immediately sold. This beautiful set was designed for children as young as 3 years old and can be used through the ages. Created by childhood development and wellness experts, it provides children with a variety of tools that encourage emotional development and improves their overall well-being making them more able to focus, self-regulate and to have improved confidence and self-esteem. Each kit contains three handmade toys and a set of Calm Mind Activity cards that provide instruction on how to use the toys for different meditative, movement and breathing exercises.
One of the best things about any purchase made from Rose & Rex is that for each toy you buy, toys will be given to a child in need. For example, for each Calm Mind Kit purchased, 8 toys will be given in turn.

Gel Floor Tiles-these are a big hit with all the kids at my sensory gym and I love how they can be used for a lot of different things. First things first, they are a huge motivator to get kids to jump, leap, hop and other gross motor activities. These colorful tiles are filled with gel so when they are being stepped or crawled on the gel moves all around. We have used them in a variety of ways but my favorite has been to set it up like a simplified Twister game where kids have to listen to and follow the verbal directions given to them. This is great for working on increasing motor planning and organizational skills, focus and attention and following multi-step directions. Also a motivating way to work on increasing gross-motor skills.

Wobbel Board-I had been coveting this beauty for a long time after following someone on Instagram. I've been using it at home with my daughter (because she won't let me take it to work) and it's been so fun to see how she uses it. When I purchased it, I imagined I would bring it to work and use it as a balance board with the kids. At home, it is being used not only as a balance board, but also as a prop in some of her imaginative play. The Wobbel Board is great for working on improving overall strength, trunk control, motor planning and organizational skills.

Stomp Rocket-this is one of those toys that makes my list each year and one of those things that kids love no matter how old they are. It's a simple toy that can help with the development of so many gross motor skills, especially jumping and overall strengthening. Their line has expanded over the years so be sure to check out the link. I like the Dueling Rockets set because it helps kids learn how to jump with two feet at the same time, but they are all great and keep kids entertained for hours. I am kinda excited to check out their newest product, Stomp Rocket Stunt Planes. Kids can work on building endurance (by running to collect the rockets), hand-eye coordination (trying to catch the stomp rockets as they fall down) and motor planning skills when using any of the stomp rocket sets.

Rody Horse-the physical therapists I work with recommend the Rody Horse for a lot of our younger kids (they recommend for kids 2-4 years old but depending on the size of a child, they can be used as young as 1 years old). Similar to the hippity-hop ball, kids bounce up and down on Rody. These are great for working on developing balance, coordination and motor planning skills. Also great for working on increasing core strength and trunk control.

Kick Scooter-living in NYC, parents are always looking for ways to get to places quicker. Once kids outgrow the stroller, they want a faster way to get to place from place so I always recommend a scooter. There are a lot of them out there but I personally love the children's scooters from Micro Kickboard. They are lightweight and the two wheels up front make it a bit easier for kids to maneuver. Scooters are great for working on developing bilateral coordination, motor planning, focus and attention, organizational skills and visual motor and perceptual skills. I also recommend having kids who may have sensory processing difficulties ride their scooters to school to help "wake up their bodies" before getting into the classroom.

Move Your Body Fun Deck-parents often ask me for simple activities they can do with their children at home. Super Duper has a whole series of activity cards that I highly recommend and use at the gym. In the past years, I have recommended (and still do) the Yogorilla cards. This year I thought I would switch things up a bit and find something a little different Move Your Body Fun Deck has 59 illustrated cards that help your child improve their body strength, balance, coordination, motor planning and motor organizational skills. I like this set because the activities are simple and can be done as a whole family. They are easy enough to include in a sensory diet at home or in school that won't require equipment. Some of the activities are to stand on one foot like a flamingo, do a long jump or to do a log roll.

Door Pong-I am loving this game for older kids and it is especially a great thing for kids who live in the city. It is essentially ping-pong without the table. Attach the clamp to the top of any doorway and then turn the dial to adjust the length of the string for your kid. The goal of it the game it to see how many times you can hit the ball back and forth to each other without missing. Door Pong is a fun way to improve hand-eye coordination, executive functioning skills such as focus, attention and organizational skills, increase upper extremity strength and encourages cooperative play.

Handee Band-I wrote about these in depth a few months ago and feel like they definitely deserve a shout out on this years gift-guide. Parents are always looking for ways to get their kids moving or exercising at home. As kids get older, it's important that they can be more independent and take more control of their physical well-being. The Handee Band, created by a California based occupational therapist, was designed with that exact thing in mind. The Handee Band Exercise Kit comes with 1 6 pound resistance Handee Band (you can order extras if you want more for your family), a book with 15 illustrated exercises with easy to follow 5-step directions, Handee Band Spinner Board and a dry erase Handee Checklist for children to keep track of their progress. Using the Handee Band will be a fun and motivating way for children to work on building body strength and will improve bilateral coordination, motor planning and motor organization, hand-eye coordination, balance and coordination skills.

Zoom Ball-this will always be a huge favorite of mine. First of all, it's super affordable and can be used with our without another person. The second thing I like about it is that it can be used in a variety of ways to work on a bunch of different skills. The goal of the Zoom Ball is to fly the ball back and forth by opening and closing your arms. This is amazing for working on increasing upper extremity strength, bilateral coordination, motor planning, organizational skills and focus and attention. I try and throw in some kind of language aspect when using the zoom ball at work. For example, I have them list the months of the year or name a color every time they open their arms. If you don't have someone to do the zoom ball with, you can attach the second set of handles to someplace higher and the kids can shoot the ball up and it will drop down on it's own.

In addition to the aforementioned toys, there are a bunch of great family board/big body games that encourage gross motor development. Some of them are Twister, Seek-a-Boo, Sturdy Birdy: The Game of Balance, I Got This, Giant Wooden Tower Stacking Game and Crocodile Hop Floor Game.

Gross motor skills are crucial for children of all ages. Not only is it important for keeping kids physically active and healthy, it provides opportunities for building confidence and self-esteem. Additionally, research shows that encouraging free movement can give children the space to develop a more keen level of self-awareness, learn non-verbal ways of communicating with family and peers and help in developing improved body and safety awareness.

What are your favorite family or work based gross-motor games? I'm sure that my readers would love to hear about your favorites just as much as I would. I am always a click away and love hearing from you all.

Tweens Like To Play Too!

Over the years, I have heard from parents of tweens and soon to be teens how tricky buying gifts for this age can be.  Because of this, I started my Tween Gift Guide last year.  This year, I have tried to offer as many new ideas as possible for this hard to please crowd but suggest you take a look at last year's guide for additional ideas.

So many of these kids still want to "play" but at the same time, want to act all grown-up.  I know from my own 11-year old niece, that she has been asking for a phone or a computer for years but at the same time, she still wants to be a kid and get presents that will entertain her.  And she is not any different than any kids her age...no matter how into clothes and technology they are, they still want to get presents that they can "play" with.  So, this particular list is dedicated to all those kids of mine who I have known since they were babies and who are now tweens.  To those kids who are in limbo and aren't quite ready to grow up and just get all clothes and big kid kinda stuff...this blog is for you!  


Polaroid Camera-I think this is one of the greatest gifts that you can give a tween, especially those who don't have their own phone yet.  Kids love taking pictures and I have found that when kids use digital cameras, they are just clicking away without really understanding what they are taking and why they are taking them.  I have found that using a Polaroid camera makes kids pay attention to their environment a bit more...makes them connect to the people they are with more.  This is because you have to be certain about what you want to take a picture of because you can't erase it or do it over.  One thing I recommend to people is that kids have a book or journal dedicated to the pictures they take with their camera.  This allows them to store and write about the picture in a place where they can use it as a keepsake item.  
   
DIY Ukelele-there was something about this DIY kit that really caught my eye.  First of all, I think more and more kids are getting into music these days.  I know that many of the kids in my family are all inspired by music and arts so that is probably what made me want to include this on this years list. The kit is easy and the end-product is something that your kids will enjoy for years.  It comes with an unfinished and pre-assembled body, guitar neck and the strings.  Once it is put together, your child can make it all their own by painting it or adding stickers, decals, etc..   Great for working on improving fine motor, visual motor and perceptual skills, executive functioning skills such as following directions, focus and attention and organizational skills.  Once it is completed, kids have this boost in confidence and self-esteem from having built something from scratch.  Then there is the added benefits of being able to learn how to play a new instrument!



Sewing Machine-another thing I feel like kids are much more interested in these days are fashion and some of them even want to learn how to make their own clothes at a young age.  I have actually been on the lookout for a good sewing machine for my own daughter who has aspirations to become a fashion designer when she grows up.  I didn't want to spend a ton of money, but I definitely wanted one that was more than just a kid one.  I reached out to a family friend and she highly recommended this one by Janome (full disclosure...you can get it much cheaper on Amazon)....it's definitely not top of the line but it is one of the best portable ones and intended for younger sewers.  There are a tremendous amount of developmental benefits from learning how to sew and they say that the ideal age to introduce your children to this is between 8 and 12 years of age.  Some of the benefits are working on improving fine motor skills, visual motor and visual perceptual skills and developing executive functioning skills such as organization, motor planning, time management and following instructions.  Most importantly, it helps kids develop self-esteem and builds confidence when they complete their projects.

Air Power Soccer Disc-another great and affordable product that encourages kids to get up and move around.  Part air hockey puck, part levitating ball, this durable disk glides over floors with a push or a kick.  It's made of plastic and rubber and has a cushion around the outside so it can be used for indoor or outdoor use.  It also lights up making it suitable for nighttime play.  Kids can work on improving gross motor skills such as balance, coordination, motor planning and organizational skills.  Great for working on improving social skills, teamwork and collaboration while also working on improving confidence and self-esteem.  


Tabletop Air Hockey Table-I've had more hours of fun playing air hockey over the years with my family and friends and I love that it is still a game that kids love to play.  Living in NYC, having a giant air hockey table is not possible so I was excited when I found this tabletop one and have been suggesting it for some of my older kids over the years.  I love air hockey because it is a fun way to work on improving hand-eye coordination skills, visual motor and visual perceptual skills, fine motor skills and executive functioning skills such as focus, attention and organizational skills.  This is a great activity for kids on playdates or to do with their siblings or with their parents.  

Emoji Uno-Uno will continue to be one of my favorite games.  First of all, it's easy to play as a family or with a group of friends.  Secondly, it's easy to carry around with you, making it perfect to take on vacations or when you know you are going to be waiting somewhere for a long time (think a sibling's sporting event or therapy appointment).  This version of Uno is almost exactly like the original Uno game except that all the special cards have a different emoji on it.  If someone puts that down, the person who follows them has to hold that face for two turns.
Great for working on visual motor and visual perceptual skills, hand-eye coordination, fine motor strengthening (holding the cards) and a fun way to work on improving focus, attention and organizational skills. There are also a tremendous amount of opportunities to work on social skills and becoming a little bit more in touch with and understanding emotions and feelings.   

Fündapop-as you can see, I am trying to suggest things that get kids playing together and up and moving around.  I've been recommending the OgoSport Ogodisk to families for years and years and while I think it is something great for all ages, I was really drawn to the Fündapop for the older kids.  Fündapop is a catching game with a bit of a twist.  Kids put their hands in the mit and when they want to throw the ball, they open their hand and the ball pops out super fast. Once the ball lands in the other mit, it will snap closed.  This could be a great gross motor gift for kids who may have a hard time with throwing a ball.  Fündapop works on improving hand-eye coordination, grasp strength and manipulations skills, focus, attention and organizational skills and improves social skills as kids play together to catch and "throw" the ball with each other.    

Beat The Parents-let's be honest, at a certain age, your kids just don't want to spend too much time with you...they would much rather be with their friends or playing some video game.  You have to make sure that you find something to do with them that will be fun and definitely not too serious.  Beat The Parents is a great board game that is meant to bring kids and parents together.  This trivia based game has kids answer questions about their parents and parents answer questions about their kids.  Whoever crosses the finish line first (watch out...wild cards can send you back to the beginning or help you get to the end faster) is the winner.  This is a great way for families to connect and learn more about each other at the same time.  Also great for working on improving visual motor and perceptual skills, organizational skills and could be a great way to encourage conversation amongst families.  

Slapzi-from the makers of one of my all time favorite games Tenzi comes Slapzi.  This is a fast-matching, card-slapping game that will be sure to entertain kids and their families for hours.  The point of the game is to be the first to match the correct picture to the clue card.  Each player gets 5 picture cards that have images on both the back and the front.  A player is assigned to flip the clue cards over and then everyone has to quickly look at the front and back of their card to see if either of the pictures match the clue.  The first person to slap on of his/her picture cards on top of the clue gets to discard the card.  This continues until one of the players gets rid of all of their picture cards.  This game is great for working on improving visual motor, perceptual and tracking skills, hand-eye coordination, and bilateral coordination skills.  Also great for working on improving executive functioning skills such as focus, attention and organizational skills in addition to a ton of social skills!

Coloring Books/Pages-this is a broad recommendation but one of my favorites.  Coloring books have come a long way in the last few years and there is such a huge selection now that are appropriate for tweens/teens.  Coloring can do way more than just work on improving graphomotor and visual motor/perceptual skills.  The benefits of coloring are endless but here are a few of the most important things that can be accomplished through coloring:
*coloring can be a calming and therapeutic for kids who might be feeling stressed about all of the social and educational demands
*coloring can decrease stress and anxiety levels
*coloring encourages kids to focus on the "now"
*unlike drawing, coloring can be done by anyone.  So many kids avoid art activities these days because they feel like they won't do it well but coloring gives these kids a clear idea of what they need to do.  
*coloring encourages creativity and individuality.  While there may be a template for them to color in, they can use whatever colors they want.  They can express themselves through their coloring in the colors they choose.
*coloring is a portable hobby....you can easily take your favorite coloring book and writing instruments with you wherever you go.  
Some of my favorite coloring books/posters are listed below but there are SO many more to choose from based on your kid's interests.
Pirasta Coloring Posters
Harry Potter Coloring Book
Cats In Paris Coloring Book
Pusheen Coloring Book
Secret Garden
The Lost Ocean
The Dr. Seuss Coloring Book
Trolls....It's Color Time
Star Wars Doodles
Wreck It Journals

2016 Holiday Gift Guide

Year after year, I am asked by parents what they should get or suggest to others for holiday gifts. While they want the gifts to be something that their kids will enjoy, they would also like to make sure that it will work on improving skills at the same time.  The good thing is that you know what to look for when toy shopping, you will realize that there are so many great, kid-adored products out there that will not only be fun, but can help in developing a variety of developmental skills.  When I look at toys, games or arts and crafts, I look to see if there are aspects of the product that will work on the following skills:
*improve fine motor, grasping and manipulation skills
*work on increasing grasp strength
*help to develop visual skills, such as visual motor, perceptual, tracking and attention skills
*work on improving executive functioning skills such as improve focus, attention, organizational skills, etc.
*may encourage speech and language skills
*encourage social skills, such as taking turns, collaborative play, etc..
*can be adapted based on a child's skill level (and by adapted, I mean made less or more challenging based on what each child can do).

Over the course of the year, I have spent time walking in and out of a bunch of toy stores (it's actually a problem....I have to seek out the local toy stores whenever I am somewhere new).  I have walked up and down aisles, researched and have been collecting information on toys, games, books, etc. that I feel should be on my annual Holiday Gift Guide.  This is a labor of love and by far the blog post that I am most proud of each and every year.  I hope that this helps you or that you share it with people who would find it helpful.  And if you have any questions or want further suggestions, I am always a click away and always more than happy to help people out with their gift hunting!

Need ideas for the little ones in you life.  Be sure to check out my gift guide for the wee ones here. How about those tough to please tweens/teens.....be sure to check out gift suggestions for them here.

Small Gifts/Stocking Stuffers
People are always on the lookout for small gifts or stocking stuffers that won't clutter up your house. There are also a lot of people who need to get a little gift for kids as a thank you for having them to a party or a simple gift exchange.  I've been putting together this list for more years than I can count and one of my favorite things to share are my favorite small gifts.  Stocking stuffers/small gifts are almost always the ones that bring the biggest smiles to faces.  Haven't we all learned that sometimes the best gifts are the small ones that come in the smallest boxes???


Discovery Putty-working on making those little hand muscles stronger can be a challenge for kids.  I have found that you have to make it fun and motivating for kids and Discovery Putty is just that.  There are four sets to choose from with different themes (transportation, school supplies, animals and sweet treats).  Kids work on improving their grasp strength and manipulation skills by hiding the small objects in the putty and then finding them.

Tenzi-this dice game is one of my all time favorites!  More importantly, the kids love it and ask to play all the time.  The rules are simple:  each person playing grabs 10 dice (each set comes with 4 different colored dice) and starts rolling.  The first person to get all 10 dice on the number they choose is the winner.  Be sure to check out their website for lots of different ways to play the game!  Tenzi is a great game for working on eye-hand coordination, fine motor skills, focus/attention and organizational skills.

Rock Chalk-you can never go wrong with giving kids chalk!  My daughter spends hours and hours during the warmer months drawing on our sidewalk.  This set of chalk, shaped like rocks, is perfect for those little hands and even can help in developing grasping skills.  If you have an easel at home with a chalkboard, this set of chalk is perfect!  (Working on a vertical surface is great for improving upper extremity strength and shoulder stability).

Zoo Sticks-meals can be a really frustrating time for some families so why not try and make it more fun??  I've been using these child-friendly chopsticks at work and at home for years and kids love them.  Okay, I won't lie....I don't know how to use real chopsticks and will sometimes use these!  Chopsticks are great for working on improving grasp strength and manipulation skills.  They are also great for working on improving eye-hand coordination.  You don't only have to use them for meal time.  I like to have kids at work use them when picking up small objects.  

32 Ways To Dress a Bunny-this cute little booklet has 32 different drawings of a bunny and your child gets to draw different outfits on the bunny!   Each page has a picture of the bunny's face and limbs (or fox) doing different activities.  Your kid gets to decide how to dress and accessorize them!  Great for working on improving graphomotor skills, focus and attention, improves creativity skills and can be great for encouraging language skills.  Another great feature....they are small and can be thrown in a bag to keep your kids entertained at a restaurant, in the car or in a waiting room!

Slime Suckers-if you have a kid who is cool with gross, this is perfect for them.  The best part, kids get the thumbs up to play with gross stuff and work on improving fine motor skills at the same time!  Each set comes with a container filled with slime and a creature that can suck the slime up.  I love the fact that it's totally affordable (under $3!) but really love the fact that it is a super fun way to get kids to work on developing fine motor skills.  I just might have to buy this for every kid I know!

Magnetic Hangman Game-I grew up playing the game of Hangman with my friends and sisters.  Hangman is the perfect game for kids who have learned how to spell and want to show off their skills.  This particular version of Hangman is great because it is easy to put in a bag and travel with.  In general, the game of Hangman is a great way to reinforce learning how to spell words, learn the letters of the alphabet and work on social skills.  It's also a great way to work on improving many executive functioning skills such as focus, attention, problem solving and organizational skills.

Wikki Stix-I've been a big fan of Wikki Stix from the first time I went into a restaurant with a kid and they gave them out instead of crayons and a coloring page!  I remember the kid I was with making a pair of glasses out of the Wikki Stix and my now husband and I making our own designs!  For those of you unfamiliar with Wikki Stix, they are wax-covered pieces of yarn that can be molded and made into a variety of things.  I like to use them to help kids learn how to make shapes, letters, numbers and other kinds of pictures.  Kids can also work on decreasing tactile sensitivity and improving bilateral coordination, fine motor and eye-hand coordination skills when using Wikki Stix.
Rock Crayons-maybe there is a pattern with me....I like writing instruments that encourage an appropriate grip.  An added bonus is if said writing instruments actually are brightly colored!  Each set comes with 12 multi-colored, rock-shaped crayons.  Because of their shape and size, they help to encourage a tripod-like grasp when you use them.   The multi-colored design makes them more exciting and motivating for kids who may be a bit discouraged to pick up a crayon to draw or color with.

Transfers-my daughter received these at a birthday party recently and she has been obsessed with them!  I was so excited to see her so into them because I remember doing these when I was her age.  These make a great little gift and are perfect for working on improving fine motor skills, graphomotor skills, creativity and eye-hand coordination.

Games
Games make a great gift, especially if you are looking for gifts that will be good for the whole family. In a day and age where kids seem to be connected to some kind of electrical device more often than not, it is nice to know that there are lots of game options out there that will keep the whole family entertained.  When picking games, I wanted to be sure that they could help in the development of fine motor, gross motor and/or visual skills.  I also wanted to be sure that they would help in encouraging good social skills, including good sportsmanship.  Many of these games can be adapted based on a child's skill level and his/her needs.

Happy Salmon-this simple, fast-paced card game that combines visual perceptual and gross-motor skills.  Everyone flips cards over their action card after they flip it over; if two people shout out the same action, they celebrate by doing that action together.  The first person to match all their cards in their deck wins.

Giggle Wiggle-this is an updated version of the Scatterpillar Scramble game.  Kids race to get all the marbles in the hands of the moving caterpillar.  Great for working on improving eye-hand coordination, fine motor skills and focus, attention and regulatory skills.  For younger children, you can decrease the level of difficulty by not turning the game on while they are trying to put the marbles on.


Willy's Wiggly Web-this cooperative game combines teamwork and the development of fine motor and cutting skills, eye-hand coordination, counting skills and recognizing left and right hands.  The purpose of the game is to cut all the bugs free from the web before the spider falls from the top of the web. Once the web and all the bugs are in place, kids pick cards and then follow the instructions to cut the web.

ListMania-this cooperative game for kids 7 and older requires them to take turns to make a list of items in alphabetical order.  This is great for working on imagination skills, organizational skills, focus, attention and regulation skills.  If you want to work on improving handwriting, this could be a fun way to get them motivated to write!  Some of the things you can write about are body parts or things you do at the beach.  There are three different ways to play the game.

Pancake Pileup-this is a favorite for the kids I work with!  In this relay style game,  kids have to pile up pancakes in the correct order based on which card they pick up.   Place the pancakes on one of the room and a plate on the other side and kids have to run back and forth while stacking them up.  Great for working on gross motor skills, balance and coordination, focus and attentional skills, visual motor and visual perceptual skills.  You can encourage social skills by having kids work in teams when playing this game.

Tumbling Monkey Stick Game- this has been a fine motor favorite of mine for a long time.  Much like the game Kerplunk but instead of marbles, there are monkeys that you are trying to get out of the tree.  Great for working on developing fine motor and grasping skills, eye-hand coordination, problem solving, organizational skills, attention and focus.  This game can be adapted to be easier or harder depending on children's skill level.

Yeti In My Spaghetti-another great game to work on the development of fine motor and grasping skills.  Place a bunch of plastic spaghetti pieces on top of a bowl and then put the yeti on top.  The point of the game is to pick out a piece of spaghetti from the pile without letting the yeti fall into the bowl.  This has been a big hit with all my preschool and school age kids!  In addition to working on fine motor skills, kids can work on improving eye-hand coordination, problem solving and organizational skills and improve social skills when playing the game.


Thumbs Up-the goal of this game is to be the first to stack a series of rings on their thumb based on the card they choose. Each card has different pictures with different colored objects and numbers on it.  Great game for learning colors, improving visual attention and eye-hand coordination, focus and attention and processing speed.  Can be adapted for kids of different ages and skill levels.

Sturdy Birdy: The Game of Perfect Balance-this game focuses on improving gross motor, balance and coordination skills.  There are 12 cards with different poses on them and kids have to master each one in order to win the game/make it to the end of the line.  They roll the dice to find out where to place a beanbag and how long to hold the position. Everyone counts while the pose is being held which helps in developing good sportsmanship skills.

Gumball Grab-this is an amazing game by Lakeshore Learning designed for children 3-6 years of age but it can easily be adapted to make it appropriate for younger children as well.  Great for working on improving fine motor, grasping, visual motor and visual perceptual skills.  Kids take turns picking cards and using grabbers to pick out gumballs to fill up their gumball machines.  This is definitely a favorite with my kids at work this year.

Social Emotional Toys
In the last couple of years, I have become more and more interested in finding products that help with social emotional learning.  I've had the great pleasure of being a part of The Meeting House, an amazing recreational based after school program in New York City for children with social difficulties, for the last 7 years.  During this time, I have learned first hand that while most children are born with an understanding of how to be kind and understanding, there are still many children who need more support and help in developing these skills.  Many of the kids I work with have a difficult time with processing both verbal and non-verbal social cues so we have to come up with alternative ways to teach them.  Below, you will find a handful of games and toys that will help develop social emotional skills in a fun, engaging and meaningful way.

Make A Face!- this amazing wooden puzzle-like product by Moon Picnic is a wonderful way to teach kids about feelings and emotions.  Not all children are able to talk about or recognize emotions and feelings.  I love how you can flip, turn or twist the 8 different pieces of the face to make a wide range of emotions.  You can use the booklet to copy the different faces or make your own.  This is a great way to help begin a conversation with children about different emotions and feelings, when they might feel this way and what they can do when they are feeling certain ways.  Bonus:  great for working on improving fine motor and visual motor and perceptual skills.

Magnutto Make A Mood-this is another great toy to help children gain a better understanding of emotions and feelings.  When you lift open the box (where you store the 133 different foam magnetic pieces) you find two faces...the top of the box is a magnetic board and kids can add all kinds of details to the two faces.  Pictures of different expressions, a list of emotions and a list of questions you can ask your kids while playing that will help them not only analyze emotions but how to react to them are included with the toy.  You can work on improving social skills by having kids work on the faces at the same time and encourage them to have conversations about what they created.

Eggspressions-these cute wooden eggs by Hape help younger children learn about feelings and emotions.  This set comes with 6 wooden eggs with different emotions.  Kids can use the eggs to help express how they are feeling when they can't really talk about it with others.  The set comes with a book that helps to show kids how to share their feelings.


Many Moods of Me Journal-as kids get older, their moods and feelings can get really confusing for them.  This 75-page journal by Klutz is a great gift for children (8 and older recommended) who need a place to keep track of how they are feeling.  This journal is not organized by the date, but instead organized by the following moods:  happy, sad, afraid, icky and angry.  Included with the book are a multi-color pen (each color represents a different mood) and a mood ring.  Also included are postcards that you can write and save for your future self!  Lots of opportunities to color, doodle and draw throughout the journal.  This is a great gift for those kids who have big feelings but don't want to talk about them with you.  And let's be honest, sometimes it's best for kids to be able to jot down their thoughts and feelings in a private way to be able to understand themselves better.

My Mood Memo-teaching kids at an early age to understand, recognize and deal with feelings and emotions can help them be more kind and empathetic people.  In this game by Plan Toys, kids look for the matching emotion tiles.  Each of the emotions is paired up with a color that represents that feeling and helps them to group them.
Kid can work on visual memory and visual motor skills, focus and attention and organizational skills while learning about feelings and emotions.  Depending on the age of the kids you are playing with, you can encourage them to talk about times they feel certain emotions and how they can deal with those feelings.

Friends and Neighbors: The Helping Game-in this cooperative game by Peaceable Kingdom, kids learn about empathy through matching problems with solutions.  Kids take turns pulling tokens out of the Helping Bag and see if the token they have chosen can help someone on the game board.  Kids have to work, think and discuss together to match up all the tokens.  The best part of this game is that nobody is a winner....you all work together to fill up your boards!

Arts and Crafts (including activity books)

Sticky Mosaics-these are still one of the products that I recommend the most to families!  Kids love working on their creations and don't realize that they are working on improving their fine motor, grasping, visual motor and visual perceptual and organizational skills at the same time.  With so many different sets to choose from (unicorns, dinosaurs, fairies, sports, etc.) you are sure to find one that will be perfect for a kid in your life!  The best part for me to see is how proud and excited the kids are when they put that final sticker on and get to take it home.

Pom Pom Pictures-I was in a new toy store out on Long Island a couple of months ago and got to spend some time with the owner of Fun Stuff Toys, who told me to try these out if I was a fan of the Sticky Mosaics.  I am happy to report that Orb Factory has done it again with these Pom Pom Pictures kits!  They are a huge hit with the kids at work.  Each template is broken down into 4 sections; you peel the sticker off and match the small pom poms to the correct colors.  Great for working on improving fine motor and grasping skills, eye-hand coordination, visual motor and visual perceptual skills and executive functioning skills such as focus, attention and organizational skills.

Pirasta Coloring Posters-these posters are a really fun family gift.  My nieces have one hanging on their playroom wall and have been coloring with their friends and each other over the course of time and have the best time.  There are so many different ones to choose from....foods, different cities, animals, etc..  Great for working on improving graphomotor skills, eye-hand coordination and visual motor and perceptual skills.  Hanging it on the wall allows for kids to work on building upper extremity strength and shoulder stability.

The Kindness Kit-Craft-tastic has a ton of great craft kits, especially for older school-aged children.  The Kindness Kit is by far one of my favorites though because it encourages children to share the crafts that they make with others.  The set includes all the materials for 8 projects.  Great for working on improving fine motor and grasping skills, visual motor and perceptual skills, bilateral coordination and executive functioning skills such as following directions, organizational skills, focus and attention.

Fashion Plates-another one of those toys that brings me back to my childhood!  My little girl has aspirations to be a fashion designer when she grows up so when I gave these to her, she was super excited.  Fashion plates encourage creativity while working on improving fine motor, visual motor and perceptual skills, graphomotor skills, bilateral coordination and executive functioning skills such as focus, attention and organizational skills.  If you have a kid who isn't into design, be sure to check out the Action Plates which lets kids design their own superhero!  

The Tinkering Kit-for the kid in your life who is more into building things than doing crafts, this would be the perfect gift.  This is not your typical craft kit and is ideal for kids who are 6 and older.  The kit comes complete with all the supplies needed to make 8 really cool projects.  How much fun would your little engineer have making a zipline or a their own marble maze??  Great for working on improving fine motor, visual motor and visual perceptual skills.  Especially good for working on improving executive functioning skills such as focus and attention, following multi-step directions and organizational skills. 

Crazy Aaron's Mixed By Me Thinking Putty Kit-I've long been a fan of all the products by Crazy Aaron (read their beautiful story here guys....this Phildelphia-based company employs over 800 people with intellectual and developmental delays).  You can't go wrong with any of their putty products because they are great for working on improving fine motor skills, strength and manipulation skills (hide coins or small objects in the putty).  If you have a kid who is into science and doing experiments, you should definitely check out this kit where you can mix up your own magical putty.  The set comes complete with 5 tins of clear putty, three concentrated color putties, three special effect putties and an instructional mat that gives you a bunch of ideas.  There are also labels for kids to write on after they create their own putty which is great for working on improving graphomotor and creativity skills.  

I Like Activity Book-this activity book is great for kids of  all ages.  There are 48 pages of activities that encourage kids to answer questions about themselves.  Lots of opportunities for them to draw, color and be silly.  Older kids who are independent for writing can fill the book in by themselves and then share what they did with their grownups.  Younger kids who may need more help can complete this with their grownups.  Great for working on improving graphomotor and creativity skills.   Also great for working on improving focus, attention and organizational skills.  This can also be great for kids to get to work on language and conversational skills.  

Happy Snacks Color-In'Book-my daughter is really into Shopkins right now so when I saw this adorable coloring book, I had to get it.  The pictures are so cute and engaging.  I love how while we are coloring, we are talking about what we see and whether we like that food or not.  My little girl is a bit of a "by the books" kinda kid, so I've used this book as a way to encourage her to think outside of the box and be more creative.  There is no reason the mushrooms on the pizza can't be purple or the marshmallows in the hot chocolate can't be green.  At the same time, we are working on improving visual motor/perceptual skills, eye-hand coordination, focus and attention and improving her grasping skills.  Once your picture is complete, they are easy to tear out and display for others to see!

Chalkola Markers-I was lucky enough for this product to have found me before I published this years gift guide.  I've been searching for something like these for a while and they happened to drop in my lap.  For many of the kids I work with, I suggest that parents find a wall in their house that they can put up some chalkboard or white erase paper on a free wall to work on graphomotor skills.  However, finding the write writing instruments to use on these surfaces has been tricky.  Dry erase markers are great but for so many of the kids I work with, they drag their hand along their work and erase their work before finishing.  These chalk markers are great because they go on as smoothly as they come off.  When I took them out at my gym recently and had the kids write on our mirror, they were so excited.  I had one little boy (who has always been resistant to handwriting activities) ask to write his name four different time in as many colors.  The nice thing about these chalk markers is that once they are started, they are easy to use so if you have a kid with decreased grasp strength, they can still be successful.  I happened to work on a large wall mirror with my friends which is great for building up upper extremity strength and shoulder stability.  When working in this upright position, kids are also more likely to prop their wrists up correctly which puts them in a more appropriate grasping pattern.  Besides practicing shapes, letters and numbers, you can play games like Tic-Tac-Toe, Hangman or the dot game.

Building Toys
This is one of my favorite sections to complete each year.  While there are several items that are always on there, I have included some new construction and STEM sets this year.  These kinds of toys are great for developing a variety of fine motor skills, visual motor and perceptual skills, problem solving and executive functioning skills.  They are also great for helping children become more creative, develop imagination skills and can help them feel more confident when they are done building and creating.
Magna-Tiles-these magnetic tiles have made my list every year since I began.  Not only are they great for working on motor planning and organizational skills, they are easy for kids of all ages and abilities to use them with great success.  If you have a child with decreased motor skills or decreased upper extremity strength, these are great for them.  Kids can build anything from an ice cream cone or a building as tall as them.  In the last few years, they have created different colored sets and ones with doors, windows and wheels so kids can create even more.  In addition to working on motor planning and organizational skills, playing with Magna-Tiles can help encourage bilateral coordination, imagination and creativity and easily be played with a friend to work on improving social and play skills.

Tegu Blocks-another favorite of mine, the Tegu blocks are beautiful wooden blocks that stick together via magnets.  Like the Magna-Tiles, I was originally drawn to these blocks because they were great for children of all ages and abilities.  Kids who may present with motor and coordination problems can play with these independently and successfully which helps in building confidence, self-esteem and imagination and creativity.  Tegu has evolved over the years and now have sets where you can make robots, helicopters and some really cool circuit sets!

Toobalink-I love discovering a new building toy, especially ones that can use household objects to help you create and build.  Toobalink is a construction kit that comes with connectors, joiners and couplers that help turn paper towel and toilet paper tubes into whatever it is your child can think of.   It also comes with an instruction booklet that gives you idea but that doesn't mean that you can't let your imagination go crazy and think outside of the box!  Great for working on improving motor planning and organizational skills, bilateral coordination, imagination and creativity skills.  Also great to work on with friends or siblings to encourage team-work and collaborative play.

Robot Engineer Kit (Level 1)-more and more young kids are interested in building and being engineers.  One thing I have noticed over the last few years is the increase in products that encourage STEM education.  This fun robot kit introduces kids to the basic engineering concepts, teaches them about gears, levers and wheels and allows them to be creative at the same time.  Each kit comes with extremely well made and durable pieces that snap together to build a robot.  It also comes with a book that has 10 different stories the kids have to follow along with in order to put the robot together.  Great for working on improving fine motor and grasping skills, visual motor and perceptual skills, bilateral coordination and executive functioning skills such as organization, motor planning, focus, attention and following multi-step directions.

Squigz- These colorful suction cup toys seem so simple but encourage a bunch of developmental skills in kids of all ages.  pipSquigz are perfect for babies and younger children. Each set comes with 3 different shape and colored pipSquigz with a different texture and sound (kind of like a rattle) which is great for expanding their tactile world.  The suction cup toys not only stick to each other but to mirrors, windows and similar like surfaces.  My kids LOVE the sound they make and I love that they work on improving eye-hand coordination, visual motor and visual perceptual skills, bilateral coordination and exploring a variety of different textures.  Another bonus, they are BPA-free which makes them ideal for children who may be teething.  As kids get older, you can get them the Squigz.  These suction cup toys can be stuck to each other or to different surfaces (like the refrigerator, mirror or windows).  Kids LOVE them!  Great for working on improving bilateral coordination, eye-hand coordination, grasp strengthening and visual motor skills.

Joinks-last year I wrote about Straws and Connectors, another great building toy, but spent some time this year looking for something that was a bit more durable and could handle the wear and tear of use by multiple kids.  Joinks are just that!  This construction kit comes with 76 flexible connectors and wooden sticks that you can use to build a variety of shapes, buildings, people, etc..  Great for working on building fine motor skills, visual motor skills, bilateral coordination, motor planning and organizational skills.  Kids can work on their own to create or play with a friend and work together to help build something fabulous.


Waldorf Inspired Rainbow Stacker-this homemade Waldorf inspired building toy by Hope Learning Toys is great for working on visual motor and perceptual skills.  It's a beautifully made toy that can help younger children work on learning colors.  It can also be used to encourage free play and language skills.  Made with all natural materials and dyes and safe for all ages.

Action-Stackers Little Builder Set-for as long as I have been practicing as an occupational therapist, I have always used the Lauri tall stackers and pegboard.  They are definitely the best pegboard set out there and great for working on so many fine motor, visual motor and executive functioning skills.  I was really excited when I was walking around Westside Kids in Manhattan and saw this awesome product.  Kids can use the pegboard and pegs to build 3-D designs or can just use the pegs, connectors and wheels to build structures, cars, etc.. Great for working on building their imagination and creative skills.  Also great for working on improving motor planning, organizational skills
In addition to the pegboard and pegs, the set comes with a variety of connectors, wheels and a step by step activity book.

Legos-I always try and make as many different suggestions for construction and building sets before recommending the good old standby, Legos/Duplos.  Over the years, Lego has evolved into something so big and targeting the interests of kids of all ages.  Whether you are a superhero fan, a lover of princesses or vehicles, you will always be able to find a set that is good for your child.  Legos/Duplos are great for working on improving fine motor and grasping skills, grasp strength, bilateral coordination, a variety of visual motor and perceptual skills and executive functioning skills.  It's also great for building confidence and self-esteem when they complete their Lego sculpture.

One of the great things about Legos is that you can find them in any local toy store so support those small businesses and purchase your Lego sets from them instead of getting them from the big box stores.  Some of my favorite stores in NYC to get them from are Westside Kids, Mary Arnold Toy Store, Toy and Stationery World ,  Lulu's Cuts and Toys and  Little Things Toy Store in Park Slope.


Basic Builder Set-another amazing product from Hape Toys that encourages younger children to build and create!  This is a great set for younger children because the pieces are bigger making them easier to manipulate.  Kids can work on improving fine motor and manipulation skills, bilateral coordination, motor planning and organizational skills.  The set also includes a bunch of cards with images on how to make a bunch of different things which is great for working on improving visual motor and perceptual skills.

Gross Motor 
One of the things we notice these days are that kids tend to spend more time infront of a tv or some kind of electronic device.  We need to make sure that we incorporate ways for kids to move every day, to build up their strength, endurance and motor planning skills.  In this section of the gift guide, I share some of my favorite toys that not only work on improving gross motor skills, but may help with developing social skills such as cooperative play.  

Big Stack Cardboard Blocks-this set of 40 cardboard blocks of varying sizes is great for people who have a lot of space.  You'll be surprised at how sturdy these blocks are and how they can handle the wear, tear and rough play that they will sure to go through with your kids!  Great for working on gross motor play and strength, encourages creative play and helps to work on eye-hand coordination, motor planning and organizational skills.

Foldaway Trampoline-I wrote about this awesome child-sized trampoline a few weeks ago in great depth and knew it would have to be included in this years gift guide.  Living in NYC, you don't always have the space to keep things like a trampoline out in your apartment.  People are also concerned about kids getting hurt when they are not being supervised while jumping on the trampoline.  So a trampoline that will fold in half and take up almost no room was so great to find.  Many of the kids I work with benefit from jumping on a trampoline for sensory purposes.  It can help organize them and provide them with proprioceptive input that helps to improve body awareness.

Double Rocket Launcher-this is easily one of the most popular toys at Heads Up, the therapeutic gym I work at in New York City.  Kids of all ages love it and don't realize how many gross motor skills they are working on when playing with it.  This is a great toy to work on jumping, running, coordination, motor planning and organizational skills.   If you have a lot of space or playing with it outside, you can have kids have races to catch the rockets or have them take turns catching the rockets for each other.

Zoom Ball-another one of the toys that makes this list year after year.  The Zoom Ball is a great toy that helps kids work on improving upper extremity strength, motor planning and coordination and collaborative play.  It's a great toy for kids to play inside or outside.  In this two person gross motor activity, kids send a football like ball back and forth to each other.  This requires a tremendous amount of focus, attention and requires kids to work together.

Spooner Board-I am sure many of you know of kids who would like to be on their scooter or skateboard all the time.  Now they can be with the Spooner Board.  The Spooner Board helps in developing coordination and gross motor skills, helps to improve strength and balance.  Can be used on pretty much any surface.  I love that kids get to work on all of these skills but have fun at the same time!

Scooter-living in NYC, parents are always looking for a way to get from point A to point B as quickly as they can.  Once their kids outgrow their strollers, they are eager to find something that will be faster than their kids just walking.  While there are a ton of different scooters to choose from these days, the only one I suggest to families are the ones by Micro Kickboard.  Great for working on helping improve gross motor skills, including strength, endurance and motor planning skills.

Swurfer Swing-one of the best parts of my job is that I get to play all day with some of the coolest kids in New York City.  The other cool thing is that I get to use swings indoors to help kids gain skills.  Last year, I learned about the Swurfer swing and we got it for our gym.  If you happen to have a backyard with a great big tree to hang this swing from, I highly recommend it!  Not only is it super fun (not just for the kids....grownups love it too!!), it's a great swing to work on improving balance, coordination, bilateral coordination, motor planning and motor organizational skills.  I've never seen my kids so happy and proud of themselves as I have once they have mastered this swing!

OgoDisk-I have to say I first fell in love with OgoSports products after learning that they were a Brooklyn based company.  Think paddle ball but without the paddles...instead each set comes with 2-15 inch OgoDisks and a ball for kids to pass back and forth to each other.  The disks are made of soft foam edges with a super stretchy elastic center.  This toy works on improving motor planning, bilateral coordination, eye-hand coordination and cooperative play.   Can be used indoors, outdoors and in a pool or the ocean!


A Little Bit of This and A Little Bit of That

This section is dedicated to a few more of my favorites that didn't really fit into any of the categories above but can't not be included on my list.

Wooden Alphabet Phonics Matching Game-another wonderful educational handmade product from Hope Learning Toys.  This matching game comes with 52 wooden pieces (made out of my favorite Lilac tree):  26 with the letters of the alphabet and 26 with an animal for every letter.  Kids work on letter identification while trying to find the corresponding animal.  I love how you can alter the game based on your child's age and skill set.  For example, you can have the kids start by putting all the letters in order in a row and then give them an animal picture and have them match it.  You can also play the traditional game of memory by turning all the pieces upside down and flipping 2 over at a time to find matches.  Great for working on fine motor skills, visual memory and visual scanning, focus, attention and organizational skills.

Kinetic Sand-this is one of my favorite sensory materials!  Kinetic
Sand is an easy-to-shape sand that molds into anything you want!  Use cookie cutters to make different objects or shapes, hide objects inside it and have kids dig around to find them.  Not only great for working on improving grasp strength and manipulation skills, it can encourage play skills, creativity and imagination skills.  I promise you that you'll have just as much fun playing with Kinetic Sand as your kids do!

Floof-another great product that can be used for sensory exploration.  This lighter than air material feels like you are playing with snow but without getting freezing cold hands!  I have loved playing with the Mr. & Mrs. Snowman kit with my own daughter.  There is also a S'Mores Kit which is loads of fun.  Not only is this great for working on improving tactile defensiveness, it works on improving fine motor and grasping skills, bilateral coordination and visual skills.  Playing with Floof encourages creativity, imagination and play skills.

Boogie Board-I have loved the Boogie Board for years and have loved watching how their products have evolved and become more child-friendly over the years.  The Boogie Board is basically the Etch a Sketch of this time.  Kids can draw, write, play games and create on this lightweight ewriter.  With a quick press of a button, they can erase the screen and begin all over again.  Their newest product, the Scribble n' Play, has quickly become a favorite of the kids at work.  It is their first ewriter that has a color screen which is highly motivating for younger children.  It also comes with 4 different stylus' that attach right onto the board.  Great for working on improving fine motor and grasping skills, graphomotor and visual skills and encourages creativity.

BabyLit Playsets-I am a HUGE fan of the BabyLit series of board books.  They make such great  presents for all kids, especially kids of parents who love the classics.  When I saw these playsets, I got so excited.  There are four to choose from:   Pride and Prejudice, Alice in Wonderland, Moby Dick and The Jungle Book.  Each set comes with the original board book and different punch-out cards featuring the different characters from the story. The box it comes in doubles as the scenery/background for the story.  These are great for working on improving focus and attention, language skills and creative skills.  You can also work on improving fine motor skills and visual motor/perceptual by pushing the pieces out of the board and putting them together to play with them.  I can't wait to get a couple of these sets not only for gifts, but to use in my social skills groups to put on little plays with the kids.


Lite-Brite-over the course of my career, I've had almost every kind of Lite Brite created.  This particular version of the always evolving Lite Brite happens to be my favorite.  What sets it apart from the other versions is that the screen is flat but can easily stand up if you want your child to work on an incline.  The other great thing about this one is that they are no longer all circle pegs but there is a variety of square, circle, triangle and curved pieces that make the pictures look more realistic.  They are also great for being able to work on making letters and numbers,  Lite Brite is great for working on improving fine motor skills, such as grasping, strengthening and in-hand manipulation skills.  Also great for working on visual motor and perceptual skills.  The Lite-Brite comes with reusable templates (no more throwing them away after each use...yay!) with highly motivating pictures to complete.  You can also get the animal or underwater refill sets if your kids get bored with the ones that come with the set.

Rock and Roll It Piano-we all know that kid who could spend all day listening to music, singing or playing an instrument.  This portable piano would make a perfect gift for any kid who would like to take their musical talents on the road!  Obviously this is great for practicing piano, but also great for working on fine motor and manipulation skills, eye-hand coordination and executive functioning skills such as focus, attention, following directions and organizational skills.  It's also a wonderful way to promote confidence and self-esteem in children.

Princess and the Pea Mouse-When I first moved to Park Slope, I fell in love with a little gift shop called Pink Olive.  Because of that place, I discovered Maileg and they have become one of my most favorite gifts to give to my daughter and most children.  Open-ended and free play is a beautiful thing.  Not only does it encourage language development, it also can help with encouraging imagination and creative skills.  One of my favorite Maileg products are their line of Princess and the Pea beds with dolls.  This little mouse one is really quite exceptional and would bring hours of fun to your little one.   In addition to working on creativity and imagination skills, there is a fine motor aspect to organizing the mattresses, finding the pea, etc..  But really, it will look so cute in any playroom or on the bookshelf of some special kids room!

Tobbly Wobbly-as you already know, I am a fan of all things Squigz related.  I think the thing that I love the most is the popping sound as they pull apart from each other or off a surface.  So today, I was in one of my favorite local toy stores on the UWS of New York, Stationery and Toy World  and found the cutest of toys....Tobbly Wobbly by Fat Brain Toys!  Who remembers the Weeble Wobble toys?  This awesome toy is very much like them but you get to make it your own.  When you take it out of the box, you will find a large egg that wobbles back and forth and your kid gets to personalize it!  Inside the egg you will find a variety of building pieces from the Squigz collection that will help your kid build a character.  Tobbly Wobbly is great for working on body awareness, bilateral coordination, fine motor and grasp strengthening, hand-eye coordination and executive functioning skills.

So there we go....the 2016 Holiday Gift Guide is finally complete!  My hope is that each of you who read through this was able to find at least one gift, but hopefully more, for some of those very special little ones in your life.  Each and every one of these gifts are good for all children, not just children who may receive occupational, speech or physical therapy.

My last little thing, but it is actually a huge thing.  Whenever possible, I linked to small, independent toy stores....the small businesses that keep our neighborhoods what they are.  I know it is easiest to go to Amazon.com or walk into any of the big box stores, but please keep in mind that the small businesses need our support more than any of those big box places.  For my New York City based people, here are the places I shop at the most:
Norman and Jules-158 7th Ave, Park Slope, Brooklyn
Pink Olive-check out the website to see find out their location closest to you in Brooklyn or Manhattan
Little Things Toy Store-145 7th Ave, Park Slope, Brooklyn
Lulu's Toys and Cuts-48 5th Ave, Park Slope, Brooklyn
Westside Kids-498 Amsterdam Ave, New York, NY
Toy and Stationery World-125 West 72nd St, New York, NY
Mary Arnold Toys-1178 Lexington Ave, New York, NY
Kidding Around Toys-Grand Central Station and 60 West 15th St, New York, NY
The Children's General Store-168 East 91st St, New York, NY
Boomerang Toys-119 West Broadway, Tribeca, NYC
Fun Stuff Toys-3639 Merrick Road, Seaford, NY